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ESFJ and ENTJ Compatibility: Relationships, Friendships, and Partnerships

How compatible are ESFJ and ENTJ patterns of communicating, thinking, and working?

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In this article, you’ll find a comparison of ESFJs and ENTJs across five important personality domains: Interpersonal/Communication Style, Emotional Style, Intellectual Style, and Organizational Style.

One important note: the following comparisons cannot be made simply by comparing the cognitive functions (letters) of each personality type.

For this analysis, TraitLab gathered data about personality traits from thousands of participants who identified themselves as a particular type in the 16 Personality or Myers-Briggs framework.

The comparisons here show the average similarities and differences between ESFJs and ENTJs. However, remember that all personality types are oversimplifications. For an assessment of your unique position in these areas, you’ll need a personalized assessment that doesn’t rely on personality types.

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ESFJ and ENTJ Interpersonal and Communication Styles

Your particular style of communicating and interacting with others can be described fairly well by two dimensions: assertiveness and warmth.

Assertiveness describes your tendency to assert yourself, lead, and influence others in social situations, while warmth describes your tendencies to empathize and put others’ needs ahead of your own.

People with the same personality type often share some similarities in assertiveness and warmth. In the graph below, you can see where most ESFJs and most ENTJs fall along both of these dimensions.

First, take a look at where people in each type, on average, fall in this interpersonal space.

ESFJ and ENTJ comparison across interpersonal dimensions
A comparison of ESFJs and ENTJs along interpersonal dimensions. The blue dot shows the average position of ESFJs, and the blue circle shows where roughly 50% of ESFJs fall in interpersonal space. The orange dot and circle show similar positions for ENTJs.

ESFJs often agree, trust, and cooperate with others. At their best, they are friendly, affectionate, and bring out the warmth and sympathy in others. ESFJs may be too agreeable and quick to compromise. At their worst, they may seek approval and agreement too much, and be dependent on the approval of other people.

ENTJs are assertive, competitive, and like a good challenge. At their best, they are bold and confident leaders who are willing to take unpopular action. ENTJs may be overly proud, boisterous, and willing to manipulate others to achieve their goals. At their worst, they can be narcissistic, overly focused on their own needs, and lack empathy for others.

One notable difference between many ESFJs and most ENTJs is in your interpersonal warmth. Like many ESFJs, you are more likely on the warmer, friendlier, more empathetic side of the spectrum. Compared to you and other ESFJs, ENTJs’ interpersonal style can sometimes feel distant, cold, and uninterested in your wants and needs.

Another important difference between you and most ENTJs is in your relative assertiveness or passivity in social situations. Like many ESFJs, you are often on the more passive, reserved side of the spectrum. In some cases, this is a perfect compliment to ENTJs’ more dominant, assertive style, and the two of you can make an effective team. However, you may find that you need to put extra effort into making your opinions heard when working with ENTJs.

ESFJ and ENTJ Emotional Styles

Another characteristic of your personality is your emotional style — your tendencies towards different kinds of moods. There are two dimensions that influence emotional style: arousal and valence.

Arousal describes your relative energy level across different situations. Those with high baseline levels of arousal tend to be generally more alert, active, and engaged, while those with a lower baseline are more reserved, subdued, and inhibited.

Valence describes whether these moods tend to be positive (pleasant) or negative (unpleasant). People with a more positively valenced style are more likely to experience emotions like joy, enthusiasm, satisfaction, and serenity. People with a more negatively valenced style are more likely to experience sadness, frustration, dissatisfaction, and anxiety.

The graph below shows where each type, on average, usually sits in this emotional space.

ESFJ and ENTJ comparison across emotional (affective) dimensions
A comparison of ESFJs and ENTJs along emotional (or affective) dimensions. The blue dot shows the average position of ESFJs, and the blue circle shows where roughly 50% of ESFJs fall in interpersonal space. The orange dot and circle show similar positions for ENTJs.

Most ESFJs and ENTJs overlap heavily in their emotional style.

ESFJs and ENTJs tend to be energetic and enthusiastic across most situations. They take on new challenges with excitement, confidence, and a sense of adventure. ESFJs and ENTJs are usually more optimistic than most people, and they generally feel like they can handle what life throws at them.

Like most ESFJs, you and many ENTJs share a relatively high energy level. You both prefer to be in motion, actively engaged in something interesting, rather than sitting back and observing. In the best case, the two of you feed off the other’s energy and excitement, and there’s rarely a quiet moment when you’re together.

Likewise, both ESFJs and ENTJs are generally more positive than negative. They are more likely to express enthusiasm, satisfaction, happiness, and other positive emotions across most situations. Like everyone else, they occasionally experience negative emotions like sadness, anxiety, and anger, but they soon return to their usual pleasant state. Together, ESFJs and ENTJs tend to share an optimistic outlook and a resilience to stress.

ESFJ and ENTJ Intellectual Styles

Your intellectual style describes how you receive, process, and pursue different kinds of information. Differences in intellectual style are captured well by two dimensions: ideas and aesthetics.

Ideas describes your appetite for new information and your interest in complex, challenging material. People high on the ideas dimension have an appreciation for complexity and technical details. People lower on ideas are less interested in learning for learning’s sake, and they prefer to simplify complex topics down to the essential details.

Aesthetics captures your relative interest and sensitivity to aesthetic information and its emotional impact. People higher on the aesthetics dimension usually have strong artistic interests and a deep appreciation for beauty in many forms. Those lower on aesthetics tend to value practical application over artistic merit and usually adhere to more conventional standards of beauty.

In the graph below, you’ll see where ESFJs and ENTJs, on average, fall in this intellectual space.

ESFJ and ENTJ comparison across intellectual dimensions
A comparison of ESFJs and ENTJs along intellectual dimensions. The blue dot shows the average position of ESFJs, and the blue circle shows where roughly 50% of ESFJs fall in intellectual space. The orange dot and circle show similar positions for ENTJs.

ESFJs are practical realists. They focus on building practical skills and essential knowledge and are less likely to spend time learning for learning’s sake. In addition, they usually value conventional, tangible accomplishments over artistic expression and rarely feel compelled to develop a creative outlet.

ENTJs are usually highly effective, efficient thinkers, capable of processing large amounts of complex information and distilling it down to its most useful elements. They are pragmatic and grounded and prefer to apply their knowledge to conventional, practical pursuits.

Like most ESFJs, you are less interested in learning purely for learning’s sake, compared to most ENTJs. You’d prefer to focus on the essentials and the practical issues at hand, while your ENTJ counterpart typically wants to dig deeper and understand the bigger picture. In conversations, you may find that your ENTJ partner often gets caught up in theoretical or abstract details, and you need to bring them back down to earth.

Likewise, ESFJs and ENTJs share an appreciation for practical, tangible accomplishments over artistic expression. ESFJs and ENTJs are both likely to embrace conventional ways of thinking, and both types are more skeptical of eccentric or unusual approaches to solving problems.

ESFJ and ENTJ Organizational Styles

Your organizational style describes your habits around organization and planning. Your organizational style influences how you structure your time and physical space. Differences in organizational style fall along two dimensions: industriousness and orderliness.

Industriousness describes your persistence, need for achievement, and intensity of focus. People higher on industriousness usually organize their behavior around a few important long-term goals. People lower on industriousness are usually more focused on the present and will more easily change their focus when new opportunities appear.

Orderliness describes your need for regularity, order, and structure in your environment. People higher on orderliness prefer tidy, organized physical spaces, detailed schedules, and reliable routines. People lower on orderliness can tolerate more disorganization and prefer a more spontaneous, unstructured approach.

The graph below shows the average position of ESFJs and ENTJs along these dimensions of organizational style.

ESFJ and ENTJ comparison across organizational dimensions
A comparison of ESFJs and ENTJs along organizational dimensions. The blue dot shows the average position of ESFJs, and the blue circle shows where roughly 50% of ESFJs fall in organizational space. The orange dot and circle show similar positions for ENTJs.

Most ESFJs and ENTJs share a similar organizational style.

ESFJs and ENTJs are usually systematic and highly organized. They like setting big, long-term goals and then creating detailed plans to accomplish them. ESFJs and ENTJs are generally good at ignoring distractions and making steady progress through consistent routines and habits.

As an ESFJ, you and most ENTJs share a natural drive to achieve and perform at a high level. Both of you enjoy setting goals and pushing yourselves to accomplish them, and you likely share an interest in self-improvement and productivity strategies. As a result, you and your ENTJ counterpart can fuel each other’s ambition and keep each other accountable as you work towards your long-term goals. However, between the two of you, nobody usually reminds you to slow down and enjoy the present.

Similarly, ESFJs and ENTJs tend to be neat, tidy, and organized. You both rely on high amounts of structure and routine and compared to most people, you have lower tolerances for messiness and disorder. With a few exceptions, both of you stick closely to most social conventions and feel uncomfortable straying from them.

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ESFJ compatibility with other types

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